Sincerity Is Truly The Best Policy

 Sincerity Is Truly The Best Policy

In order to find the right girl for you, you must be completely honest with yourself. Don't claim to be 6'1 with a six-pack if you aren't. If you're approaching 50, don't pretend to be 30. Remember, the goal is to find a girl who will like you just the way you are.

When you join an online dating service, you're looking for a girl you can like...even fall in love with. That girl is looking for a man she can like, if not love. What you're not looking for is a girl who wants to be your best friend or your idea of what the ideal guy looks, talks, and thinks like. So, in order to find the right girl for you...and she IS out there...you must be completely honest with yourself about yourself when creating your online profile, dating, and beyond.

The best way to start writing your profile is to thoroughly examine your previous relationships (s). What was correct? What had gone wrong? What made you fall in love with the previous girl? Which ones didn't? Don't assume that because you disliked your previous girl's total self-involvement and inability to see anything else, you'll be able to overlook it this time. You will not.

Don't claim to be 6'1" with a six-pack to be proud of if you aren't. Don't pretend to be a lawyer with a six-figure salary if you're a bartender. If you're approaching 50, don't pretend to be 30.

Remember, the goal is to find a girl who will like you just the way you are. If you lied in your profile, the first face-to-face meeting will dispel any doubts she has that you are a liar...and probably a cheat as well.

Finally, once you've found a girl you think could be the one for you, cancel your membership in the online dating service. After all, you and she are both aware that online dating services are designed for those who are looking rather than those who have found or been found.