First, Ask The Right Questions

 First, ask the right questions.

You need to learn more about who this strange woman is, not just who she wants you to believe she is. You must understand what mistakes to avoid and how to avoid them. Ask her if she has had any bad online dating experiences and will help you avoid making the same mistakes.

You've signed up for a few dating sites and created a killer profile. You've uploaded a good photo and are about to chat with a contact. What happens next? How do you tell the difference between those who have real potential and those who don't? You need to learn more about who this strange woman is, not just who she wants you to believe she is. 

It would be nice if women wore labels like "Gold Digger" or "Daddy's girl," but they don't, so you have to figure it out on your own, and you can't just ask direct questions. You must understand what mistakes to avoid and how to avoid them.

You must understand what mistakes to avoid and how to impress this lady if you decide to do so.

After you've gotten past the small talk, ask her, "What are the most common mistakes guys make when dating online?" Pay close attention to her responses. She'll tell you a lot about herself and her thoughts on men in general.

"What do you really think about online dating?" you should ask her next. Now she will tell you if she has had any bad online dating experiences and will help you avoid making the same mistakes.

Now for the big one... "What caused the breakup in your previous relationship?" If she blames the guy entirely, you should probably move on to the next candidate. If she accepts sole responsibility, you should probably do the same. You've gotten the right answer if she says the breakup was mutual or that the relationship wasn't right for either of them. Proceed with caution at all times.

When you meet the lady for the first time, asking the right questions will give you insight and boost your confidence.