The most important details are to be honest with yourself, examine previous relationships, highlight the characteristics that distinguish you, describe important aspects of your life, hire a professional photographer to take your first online photo, and read what you've written about yourself. These details will help you attract men who share your values.
OK, now is the time. You've signed up for at least one online dating service. Now you must write that all-important profile... the one that will catch the attention of the man of your dreams... But where to begin? Maybe you don't even think you're very good at writing. Nonetheless, you are capable of completing this task.
The first step is to be completely honest with yourself. You're looking for a man who will like...and maybe someday love...YOU....THE REAL YOU! Examine previous relationships and make a list of what you liked and disliked about them. If he smoked in the house and you didn't like it the first time, you won't like it any better the second time. Say you are an animal lover who prefers indoor pets if you adore cats and will always want to own one or more. Someone who despises cats or is allergic to them is not the right person for you.
Highlight the characteristics that distinguish you. If you play the piano well, you want Mr. Right to notice it. A couch potato is not a good match for someone who runs marathons. You don't want a man who thinks Picasso is an ice cream flavor if you love art.
Describe the important aspects of your life. If volunteering is the only thing that makes you feel useful and worthwhile, you want someone who will support you, if not join you, in your volunteer projects. When you look beyond the surface, you will attract men who share your values.
Hire a professional photographer to take your first online photo as an investment in your online profile. This is critical. The image is the first thing men notice. The second thing they do is read what you've written about yourself. Some online dating sites will even provide you with a list of local photographers who specialize in online dating site photos.
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